So, treat women with kindness…

[Bilal Mahmud المكافح المخلص]

    

لماذا لا يريد الله الحزن للنساء؟

قال تعالى في سورة القصص:
“كَيْ تَقَرَّ عَيْنُهَا وَلَا تَحْزَنَ”

وفي سورة الأحزاب:
“أَنْ تَقَرَّ أَعْيُنُهُنَّ وَلَا يَحْزَنَّ”

وفي سورة مريم:
“فَنَادَاهَا مِنْ تَحْتِهَا أَلَّا تَحْزَنِي”

وفي سورة القصص:
“وَلَا تَخَافِي وَلَا تَحْزَنِي”

لقد ركّزت الآيات على ألا تحزن المرأة، لأن حزنها عميق، ومشاعرها رقيقة، والحزن يطفئ نورها، ويزيدها ضعفًا.

وعلميًا، يؤثر الحزن على الغدد المفرزة للهرمونات الأنثوية؛ فكم من حزينة لم تنجب، وكم من حزينة تساقط شعرها، وكم من حزينة شحب لونها…

فرفقًا بالقوارير
• لا تجرح أمك بكلمة.
• لا تقسُ على أختك.
• لا تهمل زوجتك.
• استمع إلى ابنتك، وابتسم لها، ولبِّ طلبها.

تقرّب إلى الله بالإحسان إليهن، ولا تُحزن قلوبهن.

“فلا يكرمهن إلا كريم، ولا يهينهن إلا لئيم.”

والله وحده يعلم عظيم الأجر في إدخال الفرح والسرور عليهن، فهنّ سبب في رزقك وسعادتك بعد الله.

فاستوصوا بالنساء خيرًا...

Why doesn’t God want sadness for women?
The Almighty said in Surah Al-Qasas:
“So that her eye might be comforted and she would not grieve.”
And in Surah Al-Ahzab:
“So that their eyes might be comforted and they would not grieve.”
And in Surah Maryam:
“So he called out to her from below her, ‘Do not grieve.’”
And in Surah Al-Qasas:
“And do not fear, nor grieve.”
These verses emphasize that a woman should not grieve, because her sadness is profound, her feelings are tender, and sorrow extinguishes her light and increases her fragility.
Scientifically, sadness affects the glands that secrete feminine hormones. How many grieving women could not bear children? How many lost their hair? How many had their complexion fade?
So, be gentle with these delicate vessels:
* Do not wound your mother with a single word.
• Do not be harsh with your sister.
• Do not neglect your wife.
• Listen to your daughter, smile at her, and fulfill her requests.
Draw closer to God by being kind to them and not saddening their hearts.
“None honors them except the noble, and none dishonors them except the vile.”
God alone knows the immense reward in bringing joy and happiness to them, for they are a reason for your sustenance and happiness after God.
So, treat women with kindness…

[Bilal Mahmud المكافح المخلص]

Kofi Bilal Mahmud Eid AlFitr 1443 A.H.

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